Completing applications over winter break? How to manage the stress
December 24th, 2018Happy holidays and best wishes for 2019 to all! As the month of December winds down, many students have already received admission decisions this month. Congratulations to those who have been accepted Early Action or Early Decision! I love hearing students’ news, no matter the outcome, so please continue to keep me in the loop as you receive admission decisions.
Winter break is here and while we hope you’re able to focus on family time and a little R&R, this hiatus is also perfect for students still wrapping up final applications for colleges and boarding schools. Try to stay positive throughout this sometimes stressful process and remember to enjoy the time you have with friends and family. The Wall Street Journal provides a wonderful article to help us remember to keep calm as deadlines are approaching. (N.B. – although focused on college, portions of this article are also useful for students applying to boarding schools.)
Parents, many of you have fully equipped students who are ready to make these important decisions and with this in mind, you might find this stressful time a little more enjoyable.
Article referenced below published on December 11, 2018 by The Wall Street Journal, written by Sue Shellenbarger
It’s a monthslong ordeal that could change the course of a high school senior’s life, leading to a choice that could cost tens of thousands of dollars or more. No wonder the college-application season can torpedo the holidays for teens and their parents.
Many students labor to meet early-winter deadlines for college applications, often under the anxious eyes of their parents. The resulting stress can damage family relationships if parents fail to set good boundaries and keep their own anxieties in check.
Tagged: Applications, College
Early decision news: the wait will soon be over
December 11th, 2018December is here and while it is a glorious time filled with much anticipation of the holidays, it can also be filled with tension as students who applied Early Action or Early Decision anxiously await their college admission decisions.
While waiting is often the hardest part of this entire process, try not to worry too much. Many of you will receive just the news you are looking for. Yet no matter what happens, there are other excellent educational institutions around the country which might be the right fit and your applications are already well under way.
The article referenced below was written for the U. of Pennsylvania’s admission blog by Olivia O’Dwyer, a student at Penn, as an open letter to students who applied Early Decision. In this note, O’Dwyer tells about her experience on ED decision day and what she took away from this time. Her genuine and candid advice is a great reminder that the college admission process is a small stepping stone in your journey to become who you want to be. We believe everyone will find her words worth taking to heart.
We wish everyone the best possible outcome and while we hope for good news right alongside you, we are confident that you will be well placed in college whether or not the near-term news brings joy.
Article referenced below published on December 8, 2017 by University of Pennsylvania, written by Olivia O’Dwyer
Hello, readers!
If you’re reading this and you applied Early Decision to Penn, or to any other university – I know exactly how you feel. Even though it was almost exactly a year ago now, I can still be brought back in a second to those final few weeks, then days, then hours of anxiously awaiting my decision. Everything seemed to hinge on that moment, opening my email to a confirmation or rejection.
Read more at University of Pennsylvania >>Tagged: College, Early action, Early decision
How to handle Uncle Bob and Aunt Bertha during the holidays
November 27th, 2018Navigating through holiday social events while keeping track of application deadlines, topped with interrogations by family members about your future plans, can be a bit overwhelming. It’s a little bit like filling your plate with turkey, stuffing, vegetables and cranberry sauce and then trying to make room for the sweet potato casserole!
With Thanksgiving in the rearview mirror, now is a great time to reflect on conversations had with family and friends. And with the winter holidays quickly approaching it is important to find balance while remaining productive, enjoying some time off while continuing to check things off your “to-do” list.
The article we share below has many great tips and tricks to help guide you through the rest of the holiday season. December is a month when many students will hear the outcome of Early Decision and Early Action applications and for seniors, waiting can often be the hardest part of this process. Keeping busy and having a plan can help you through this time.
Article referenced below published on November 14, 2018 by Counselors’ Corner, written by Patrick O’Connor.
Tagged: Admission decision, Applications, College
Freshman year blues: how a college freshman’s viral video helped others
October 16th, 2018The first year of college, or any new school for that matter, can be a roller coaster of emotions. You are finally living that independent life, making new friends, possibly even living in a new city, but it may be more difficult than you ever imagined. People tell you that this will be the “best time of your life”, but is it?
Starting a new school may be exciting but is also a major adjustment. That first semester is the most difficult and some people even consider transferring, yet if you allow yourself time and space for friendships to develop organically, you may be surprised at the changes by spring semester. Making new friends doesn’t happen overnight although social media may make you believe otherwise. Give yourself time, and please understand that everyone is trying to navigate this new world around them.
In the New York Times article referenced below, Emery Bergmann shares her experience as a freshman at Cornell University. I love how honest and open she is when it comes to her feelings of loneliness at the start of the school year. Bergmann’s viral video became an internet sensation as it resonates with so many people. We all have these feelings of loneliness when we venture into uncharted territory; starting something new can be scary but the reward is much greater than we can imagine in the moment. Stay focused and know that you are not alone.
Article referenced below published on October 9, 2018 by The New York Times, written by Emery Bergmann
Being known as “the girl with no friends” wasn’t my favorite part about having made a video that went viral — but you take what you can get.
About a year ago, as a college freshman at Cornell, I was assigned a short video project for my Intro to Digital Media course.
I decided to focus on my disappointment with the early weeks of college: How I couldn’t get past superficial conversation, how I couldn’t seem to enjoy parties, feel comfortable on campus, or just meet people who I wanted to spend more time around. I felt so lost and beyond confused.
Read more at The New York Times >>Tagged: College, Mental health
